Considering I got laid off from my new job after college and many people are graduating Highschool and college unable to find employment in this economy i think she’s just going to make him homeless. My job and many others don’t even pay enough to LIVE. The bare minimum to live in poverty in the US is 25-30$ an hour. So if her son is “lucky” he can earn a sub poverty wage like 15-20$ an hour without a college degree. If he’s unlucky he can make 7.25-10$ if he’s ABLE to get an entry level job without the pre required 5-10 years experience
I'm 20 and I didn't do anything immediately after high school because I had mental health issues but after about his school year of rest I went to college I'm now towards the end of my sophomore year with a 3.91 GPA it's not that hard
How the hell can you kick your kid out at 19. Whats wrong with you guys….. I'm glad I was born to my parents who actually helped me. You guys have horrible parents.
It really frustrates me when older generations talk about kids today.. I mean I’m not exactly a kid I’ll be 30 this year. but I’ve noticed they or people their generation and older don’t seem to connect the dots to the fact that there are opportunities that simply no longer exist… things are not the same as they were when they were his age. the motivation, the hope, the opportunity, the education, the work satisfaction the opportunity to live somewhere nice even relationships all are different!! It is no wonder that this kid is clearly struggling with his life and finding a lack of motivation when he’s clearly gone out there and saw how hopeless it is and how lied to he was about life. Is this kid to blame partly? I don’t know 🤷♂️ maybe.. but just hearing a one sided beat down about how all the issues with this 19 year old are because of him really affects me 😢
I was about to say “I could never understand how a parent could do that” but waited. Definitely glad I did. My parents have joked that my brother won’t ever move out, but he also works and is willing to work. He had a rlly good job at one point, but had to have surgery two yrs ago nearly and is STILL “recovering” from it. He has a new job, been there about 6 months now I think (where I used to work). And he would go back to the other job, but he isn’t healed yet. He’s had I think 5 different surgeries for this one thing (one was due to infection) all because the first doctor pretty much screwed it up.
“Screwed it up” being my cousin had the same surgery maybe 6 months ago, I think less than that, and is already fully healed from what I’ve heard.
She didn't say why he got fired, and that makes me think it wasn't of his own fault and they wanted to make it look worse. But I don't know, this same story gets shared every year
I know some Americans who don't do this coming from my immigrant background being born in America this is not something you do normally in fact it's encouraged for the family to stay together in one house I left of my own accord actually broke my parents hearts but I wanted to make something of myself when some people aren't ready some people aren't ready you can't just throw yourself out there without a plan
I don't get kicking someone out at 19yo 😭 I'm 19yo and my mom would let me stay at home as long as I want, like come on, situation on the housing doesn't look too good these days anyway shhdshhd
I notice she said “my husband and I” which makes me think stepdad situation, and she cares about the kid as much as the stepdad does. Moral of my story is the kid don’t got a real father and has a weak mother. But I got 4 brothers so I guess I couldn’t possibly understand a scenario of having that weak of a bond or having no one to go to.
I’m 18. I don’t have my driving license even yet. I have a job it’s fine I can work. But, I get this guy because I have no drive no nothing. There no part of me that’s wants to better myself no part of me that wants something more. I could die tomorrow and to me it wouldn’t matter. Only reason I’m here because my parents. I will only die after they do.
These parents are gonna end up in a nursing home one day lmao
What they should do is keep him home since he’s barely an adult, but they should guide him on doing better instead of just throwing him out into the world and telling him to figure it out your their parents not their boss not there guidance counselor, your their parents
My dad didnt realize how hard it was to find a job when i was searching, tried to kick me out at 19 because i still didn't have one, fast forward 8 years and my dad had to find a job. He called me one day and apologized to me for it because he spent months looking for a new job
19 in this day in age is hard af i dont know what to tell you lmao you think saving money is going to help you if you are working mim wage 90% of jobs in wa are mim wage rent is over 2k a month needs over a year of anything to even move in without parents help with co signing good luck trying to move out at 20 with no parents help and a job that does not pay you over 50k a year shit even a crack house is selling for 1m here lmao i got kicked out at 14 moved into my friends tested out of hs and we had to move over 100 miles away to even get a place lmao
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Getting to 19 and still being like this isnt all on him. They're this dudes parents who, likely, never bothered to actually parent the s o.b until now
Sounds like they are going to a home
yeah if you expect your kid to be able to live on his own after 1 year of being an adult in this economy you are crazy
Hes 19 hes gonna do stupid shit? Just make him get another job in the meantime, hell figure it out eventually
Considering I got laid off from my new job after college and many people are graduating Highschool and college unable to find employment in this economy i think she’s just going to make him homeless. My job and many others don’t even pay enough to LIVE. The bare minimum to live in poverty in the US is 25-30$ an hour. So if her son is “lucky” he can earn a sub poverty wage like 15-20$ an hour without a college degree. If he’s unlucky he can make 7.25-10$ if he’s ABLE to get an entry level job without the pre required 5-10 years experience
I'm 20 and I didn't do anything immediately after high school because I had mental health issues but after about his school year of rest I went to college I'm now towards the end of my sophomore year with a 3.91 GPA it's not that hard
How the hell can you kick your kid out at 19. Whats wrong with you guys….. I'm glad I was born to my parents who actually helped me. You guys have horrible parents.
It really frustrates me when older generations talk about kids today.. I mean I’m not exactly a kid I’ll be 30 this year. but I’ve noticed they or people their generation and older don’t seem to connect the dots to the fact that there are opportunities that simply no longer exist… things are not the same as they were when they were his age. the motivation, the hope, the opportunity, the education, the work satisfaction the opportunity to live somewhere nice even relationships all are different!! It is no wonder that this kid is clearly struggling with his life and finding a lack of motivation when he’s clearly gone out there and saw how hopeless it is and how lied to he was about life. Is this kid to blame partly? I don’t know 🤷♂️ maybe.. but just hearing a one sided beat down about how all the issues with this 19 year old are because of him really affects me 😢
19 years old and you're licking him out cuz he's not done anything with his life?
DUDE HE'S 19!!!
Find out if son is mentally ill < call a podcast for attention
Average case of parents doing nothing and expecting a 19 year old to be able to live by himself in an economy where 30 yr olds are struggling with it
I was about to say “I could never understand how a parent could do that” but waited. Definitely glad I did. My parents have joked that my brother won’t ever move out, but he also works and is willing to work. He had a rlly good job at one point, but had to have surgery two yrs ago nearly and is STILL “recovering” from it. He has a new job, been there about 6 months now I think (where I used to work). And he would go back to the other job, but he isn’t healed yet. He’s had I think 5 different surgeries for this one thing (one was due to infection) all because the first doctor pretty much screwed it up.
“Screwed it up” being my cousin had the same surgery maybe 6 months ago, I think less than that, and is already fully healed from what I’ve heard.
Average western mentality
Average white family
She didn't say why he got fired, and that makes me think it wasn't of his own fault and they wanted to make it look worse. But I don't know, this same story gets shared every year
I know some Americans who don't do this coming from my immigrant background being born in America this is not something you do normally in fact it's encouraged for the family to stay together in one house I left of my own accord actually broke my parents hearts but I wanted to make something of myself when some people aren't ready some people aren't ready you can't just throw yourself out there without a plan
You should have actually raised him, and now you are kicking him out with no life skills. You both suck as parents and humans
I don't get kicking someone out at 19yo 😭
I'm 19yo and my mom would let me stay at home as long as I want, like come on, situation on the housing doesn't look too good these days anyway shhdshhd
I notice she said “my husband and I” which makes me think stepdad situation, and she cares about the kid as much as the stepdad does.
Moral of my story is the kid don’t got a real father and has a weak mother.
But I got 4 brothers so I guess I couldn’t possibly understand a scenario of having that weak of a bond or having no one to go to.
The entire rest of the world: Youngest generation lives in the same place their grandparents grew up
America: “You have no money and you’re 18? Get tf out of my house”
I’m 18. I don’t have my driving license even yet. I have a job it’s fine I can work. But, I get this guy because I have no drive no nothing. There no part of me that’s wants to better myself no part of me that wants something more. I could die tomorrow and to me it wouldn’t matter. Only reason I’m here because my parents. I will only die after they do.
These parents are gonna end up in a nursing home one day lmao
What they should do is keep him home since he’s barely an adult, but they should guide him on doing better instead of just throwing him out into the world and telling him to figure it out your their parents not their boss not there guidance counselor, your their parents
The only reason i watch these vids is to look at the lawnmoing
My dad didnt realize how hard it was to find a job when i was searching, tried to kick me out at 19 because i still didn't have one, fast forward 8 years and my dad had to find a job. He called me one day and apologized to me for it because he spent months looking for a new job
why r so many people defending an able bodied bum who does nothing?
The problem isnt that he hasn't moved out or got a job, its that he has no plans or motivation to do anything.
Theyll do anything but blame the parents
19 in this day in age is hard af i dont know what to tell you lmao you think saving money is going to help you if you are working mim wage 90% of jobs in wa are mim wage rent is over 2k a month needs over a year of anything to even move in without parents help with co signing good luck trying to move out at 20 with no parents help and a job that does not pay you over 50k a year shit even a crack house is selling for 1m here lmao i got kicked out at 14 moved into my friends tested out of hs and we had to move over 100 miles away to even get a place lmao
Sounds like he’s depressed
Ok
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True american family , ready to trow their child on the street at any occasion 😂
True american family , ready to trow their child on the street at any occasion 😂
True american family , ready to trow their child on the street at any occasion 😂
give him time and help him go out on his own little by little