"Bringing to the table in the dating marketplace"… is already an error, rational neo-capitalism frame on coupling!!! …leaves out the SAUCE OF LOVE AND ROMANCE which actually is what souls are thirsty for!!!!
Relearn LOVE and CREATION of trascendence relationships… then happiness will spring again.
I keep my partners to the same standard as myself, and this means in particular not obese and mentally healthy. Politics is negotiable, except if they cant agree to disagree, because then its just never gonna work. For women I also excuse not being self confident.
When you decide you are ready for marriage and all that entails, it’s not about finding the right person. It’s about being the right person. Period. If you haven’t defined define what you want AND what you have to offer other than occasion sex and dinner on the table, you are not yet the right person. So many women not wanting to contribute to the financial side of marriage is disturbing. What are they afraid of; failure, rejection, less than ideal working environment, competition, being told what to do? A woman who is not at least willing to work is a non-starter. She is not a partner. She is a pending liability. Woman are rewarded when they get married AND when they divorce. Most men lose in both cases. If you want a pre-nup and she refuses, dump her immediately.
One of the best personality traits to have is self-awareness, an understanding of what is reality. If one is a 6 who deludes themselves into thinking they're a 10…they'll only want a 10 but can't get one, then complain about it.
Put simply, anyone can buy a million dollar mansion. But are you capable of keeping it, maintaining it, and even improving it? That’s how a relationship is
I don't look for an equal partner because I've never met any girl who comes close. I'm aware of what the options are and have chosen to remain single. It's not fair to either person otherwise. Also, that is hilarious that she throws in doesn't have psych issues. 😆
Aspiring for more is fine too, but realizing what you bring to the table is critical to happiness for both partners. It can also inspire you to work on yourself and try to bring a little more to the table. If you want more, bring more and be more. Otherwise you're just a spoiled child walking around in an adult's body.
Modern women see anything below their fantasy as settling, and will treat their partner as such, no matter how good of a husband they are and that will destroy the marriage over time.
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"Bringing to the table in the dating marketplace"… is already an error, rational neo-capitalism frame on coupling!!! …leaves out the SAUCE OF LOVE AND ROMANCE which actually is what souls are thirsty for!!!!
Relearn LOVE and CREATION of trascendence relationships… then happiness will spring again.
Like if you think this might be the path! ———->
I keep my partners to the same standard as myself, and this means in particular not obese and mentally healthy. Politics is negotiable, except if they cant agree to disagree, because then its just never gonna work. For women I also excuse not being self confident.
When you decide you are ready for marriage and all that entails, it’s not about finding the right person. It’s about being the right person. Period. If you haven’t defined define what you want AND what you have to offer other than occasion sex and dinner on the table, you are not yet the right person. So many women not wanting to contribute to the financial side of marriage is disturbing. What are they afraid of; failure, rejection, less than ideal working environment, competition, being told what to do? A woman who is not at least willing to work is a non-starter. She is not a partner. She is a pending liability. Woman are rewarded when they get married AND when they divorce. Most men lose in both cases. If you want a pre-nup and she refuses, dump her immediately.
Dunno why she brought men into it like we have high standards lol its quite the opposite
I wished woman where more like brett.
Imo she is simply the whole package
Yes!
One of the best personality traits to have is self-awareness, an understanding of what is reality. If one is a 6 who deludes themselves into thinking they're a 10…they'll only want a 10 but can't get one, then complain about it.
Thank god im not american
A rare woman who has normal lips
all im saying is, no one has seen brett cooper and ben shapiro in the same room together.
These women literally want a one in a million man. Yet they are quite average.
To be fair there is a difference between standards and ideals
She is definitely related to Ben Shapiro. She makes the same facial mannerisms as him.
Who is the female?
She just described herself 😊
Put simply, anyone can buy a million dollar mansion. But are you capable of keeping it, maintaining it, and even improving it? That’s how a relationship is
Go meet people and mix in person. Get off the couch w your cell phone by yourself.
People fall in love and it ain’t an algo. Chemistry is or is not.
I don't look for an equal partner because I've never met any girl who comes close. I'm aware of what the options are and have chosen to remain single. It's not fair to either person otherwise. Also, that is hilarious that she throws in doesn't have psych issues. 😆
She’s very sharp and articulate ,and she almost gets it , except at the very end.
-There is a degree of settling regardless of who you are.
My weight is 6 figures…and i'm working on my finances..
Everyone commenting about obesity. But not about being leftist.
Got 2 baby mamas and ex-wife
Females stick to each other and MTFO
don't worry y'all's street got y'all 😂😂😂
Adam and Eve can keep them, their motor stick made them useless regardless age or color
😂😂😂😂😂
Truth stands
Big smile
Big ass
Big faith in the Lord
Is what I want in a woman
Is that too much to ASK?!?!?
They want so much but apart from their bodies they have nothing to give , and most are average anyway
Aspiring for more is fine too, but realizing what you bring to the table is critical to happiness for both partners. It can also inspire you to work on yourself and try to bring a little more to the table. If you want more, bring more and be more. Otherwise you're just a spoiled child walking around in an adult's body.
I married a chubby girl and she’s the nicest, pleasing, and hardworking woman I’ve met. We hardly argue or debate. That’s priceless.
This is total and utter bs. Have whatever standards you want. It's your bussiness and business of your potential partners, noone else's.
Bret Cooper at her age… that's the kind of man every man should want.
The point went right over y’all’s heads in the comment section. Nit picking will get yall nowhere
As a man I now have insane standards , after being divorced .
Young people don’t get that any sort of relationship requires a lot of hard work, having that in a partnership is the most important thing
It's not settling, it's being realistic!!
I'm looking for a hominid bi-pedal breathing and we get along well most of the time.
They have been saying it for centuries, yet still nobody listens: LIke the people that like you.
No one else cares that much.
Modern women see anything below their fantasy as settling, and will treat their partner as such, no matter how good of a husband they are and that will destroy the marriage over time.
Tall, blueish eyes, and well over 100K, that describes Trump, but most chicks don't want him.